| Suit and dress expectation | A blazer with trousers or chinos counts; dresses can be relaxed shapes and separates are welcome. | A matched suit or a structured knee-to-midi dress is the common reading; dressy separates work when deliberate. |
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| Tie and neckline | Tie optional and usually skipped; open collars and fine knits sit comfortably. | Varies by host: many expect a collar and a more covered, deliberate finish, but semi-formal does not automatically mean tie. |
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| Fabric and finish | Texture and matte cloth are the norm: flannel, tweed, oxford cotton, chino twill, merino knits. | Smoother, pressed, more finished cloth: worsted wool, poplin, crepe; the outfit should look planned, not assembled. |
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| Footwear | Neat leather or clean minimalist footwear: loafers, derbies, dressy flats, block heels. | Polished leather shoes, or polished flats or heels — chosen to match the outfit's finish rather than the day's comfort alone. |
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| Denim and casual knits | The defining tolerance: dark, unfaded denim and fine knitwear are legitimate building blocks. | Usually out; if the host's own examples include them, that is their reading, not a general rule. |
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| How hosts use the term | Applied to flexible offices, dinners, galleries and relaxed celebrations. | Applied to weddings, engagement parties and formal dinners — occasions where a host sets a floor rather than a range. |
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